Author: Claire Battye
Is Love Really Blind? Falling in Love.
Love is so complicated that I think it is really risky trying to explain things about it. But l will try… falling in love…
The measure of love is when you love without measure
What is really love? Can anybody explain it perfectly? No. Nobody can explain it correctly. Even the lovers cannot exchange their love in words. The words do not have that much power to explain this emotional feelings.
Falling in love is the better thing that may happen in your life. Love is a wonderful gift, for sure. When you fall in love, love is blind.
Anyone can simply fall in love with anyone regardless the age, race ,religion, culture, tradition, rich or poor. And it can happen at any moment.
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When we fall in love with somebody we stop noticing their imperfection. And that’s what makes love blind. The lover doesn´t recognize bad things only see the good things.
You just see the positive characteristics of the other lover but not his or her personalities flaws.
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Love is really blind sometimes. It’s like you have some description in your head: smart, loves to read, likes dogs, etc. And then you meet HIM/HER and it doesn’t matter that he/she reads just his/her newsline in Facebook or Instagram. That’s how it works. Love is a crazy and confusing things. When you love someone you look only at goods things.
Mostly all teenagers are a bit “blind”. Or it is better to say they live in a fool’s paradise, but this is quite normal and with the time we “dive” into the reality.
For example, a mother’s love can be blind towards those of her children who have committed crimes. It could also be that you do not notice certain habits or traits of your loved one that may not be so favourable to others. It could even be that you do not notice what they do or what they say, despite the fact that they’re not so nice!
Love is a learning and sharing experience as well.
We tend to oversee bad things on our beloved ones, as we sometimes can overlook the good things they do for us if take their love granted.
Very often, we see our lover’s flaws but we choose to ignore them for the sake of our relationship. That doesn’t always turn out to be the best thing to do.
We know that blind love makes people see only the positivities of their beloveds and forget that there are negative sides. When you face an obstacle in your road of love and can’t reach it, you’ll feel like everything is against you and nothing you can do about it.
When you love truly you see the person’s good qualities. You don’t want to think that the person you love can have bad traits or not good enough for you. When others say that he/she does not have those positive personality features, you don’t believe and might dislike people saying it. So I can say that the love can be blind. At first you attracted by each other’s appearance and afterwards you learn the person’s inner life.
Unfortunately, sometimes, he or she may make excuses for the other person’s inappropriate actions, words, or behavior. Hopefully, though, seeing and loving the truth about another person does not mean he or she is blind to something which is considered inappropriate. Love is a learning and sharing experience as well.
May be heart can see what eyes cannot see?
When love has fused and mingled two beings in a sacred and angelic unity, the secret of life has been discovered so far as they are concerned, they are no longer anything more than the two boundaries of the same destiny; they are no longer anything but the two wings of the same spirit.
Love is a strange feeling. Everything can happen and to it nothing is impossible.
“To fall in love” is a magic English expression: there’s something in the idea of falling that expresses the impossibility of avoiding it, which is really peculiar of love itself.
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When you love you can’t hear, see, sleep, even eat. Because your heart and stomach are full of sweet feelings which calls love. You have butterfly in your stomach which give you energy and strength. It is great feeling that changes your character, habits and even tastes. When you love somebody the world becomes beautiful and peaceful. All of people seems to smile to you, the world seems to hug you. You just want sing, dance, fly in this wonderful world that make you as blind bird and you can’t able to notice negative things and troubles around you. Love, love, love:)))))
As is well known, falling in love often leads to emotional and physiological instability. You bounce between exhilaration, euphoria, increased energy, sleeplessness, loss of appetite, trembling, a racing heart and accelerated breathing, as well as anxiety, panic and feelings of despair when your relationship suffers even the smallest setback. Women experience reciprocity in emotions more than men.
The phrase “to fall in love” carries a concept of love, that of a kind when two people implicitly growing feeling of love for each other beyond their control, or common sense, or rational judgements. They’re naturally meant for each other.
The main is that love comes. And you are happy.
When we fall in love our reason does not prevail. Things are complicated because we cannot always translate feelings into words.
Some love stories have no words only heartbeats.
Love is a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection to pleasure. It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment.
Love is complicated, but beautiful.
And love does not look with the eyes, neither with the mind, love looks with the heart, it happens when you have love at first sight; at least, one time in your life will happen to you, and obviously, I am not the exception.
However, real love can not be blind, for when you love somebody, you are aware that he has flaws and virtues and you love the whole person, and help him improve himself.
On the second point, yes, personality is absolutely more important than looks, some hunk man who is rude or boring or superficial, etc is not nice to be around. Love looks with the mind because in order to love somebody you must see beyond the evident, the perishable, the body.
The main is that love comes. And you are happy.
To fall in love with the personality
In the beginning you fall in love with the looks of someone and then as you get to know him or her better your feelings grow stronger because you also fall in love with their personality. So then you are really blind for some time and slowly but steadily you start seeing the real person and getting your eyesight back.
Obviously, we can’t determine one’s personality just by looking at them (though some traits are immediately visible), so we’re naturally drawn to looks first, but it’s the personality that makes us fall and stay in love with someone.
When passion become less strong, we start to notice other sides of a person, sometimes quite irritating. It doesn’t mean that we don’t love any more. It’s just another lever of relationships. It’s simple to fall in love, but it’s much more complicated to save love.
Love is personified here and that it has no eyesight.
People who are truly in love tend to focus on the positive qualities of their beloved, while overlooking his or her negative traits. They also focus on trivial events and objects that remind them of their loved one, day-dreaming about these precious little moments and mementos.
Bright personality occupies you feelings and emotions.
We all feel attraction towards certain aspects in a person. Appearance is important of course, however it is something that goes beyond it what can make us fall in love.
Bright personality occupies you feelings and emotions. The personality is more important than it looks, because you fall in love with each of the details of your lover.
You may not like someone you meet for the first time, and then grow to like them when you know them better.
Love is more related to feeling we have during the moment/time we spend with someone.
Eyes and mind work together to fall in love. Eyes are the organs that send the information to our brain and there the answer is been prepared. In other words, they both make teamwork: we capture an information that interests us and it is sent to the brain, and it’s our mind that make a decision.
In Biology, a person is interested in someone who has good genes, a person who has some features on the face, body that indicates he/she is a good partner. There are some characteristics that our brain/mind find that fit in something we are looking for, or missing in that time. And it can become love!
Love can inspire the best things and the worst too.
Love is a more complicated and deep thing, so it makes people more tolerant to beloved one, make compromises and work hard to keep this feeling.
You may fall in love someone at first sight but also you may fall in love someone after you started to get to know that person. Absolutely, personality is more important than looks. Love sometimes looks with the mind but sometimes looks with the eyes.
But at the end, the love is like a flower. If you take care of it, your love will be strong.
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